Children Who Bully

Boys and girls who engage in bullying behavior tend to have a need to feel powerful and in control. They seem to get satisfaction from inflicting pain or hurting their peers, both physically and emotionally.

• Are aggressive with others (including parents and teachers)
• Frequently hit or push other children
• Are physically strong and socially dominant
• Have a positive view of aggression
• Have trouble following rules
• Show little empathy for others
• Are emotionally immature
• Are irresponsible
• Show inadequate social skills (also true for bully/victims)
• Seek attention (think fear equals respect)
• Are often contemptuous of both children and adults
• Are often academically below average
• Cannot and will not accept responsibility for their actions

Source: SAMHSA. U.S. Department of Health & Human Services